About me

I am Aarti, a certified coach based at Mumbai, India.

I call myself a domestic coach because when I wanted to get unstuck and look beyond my challenges, I started out on a discovery process – a discovery of self-awareness that would best serve me to lead a fuller and more joyous existence, post abusive experiences.

I had pursued a career in management consulting, had a comfortable background, literally the world at my feet and raring to go places. I then found myself quickly grey haired, frustrated, ridden with self-doubt and anxiety as I had hit rock bottom from an abusive marriage, ensuing legal struggles, losing out on my career trajectory, and drifting with several psychosomatic health challenges.

Life threw me one hard ball after the other! I wasn’t aware of what served me and what did not. So I drifted. I simply wasn’t aware that I wasn’t living a life that befitted me in any way – physical, mental, emotional and spiritual – and that my life’s experiences up until then, were just that – experiences but not the end of the world!

What next?

A question that bothered me often. I didn’t know what to do and where to turn. But I yearned for self-created fulfilment rather than hand over my happiness to another individual. My only recurring thought was – I would rather bet on myself than let others gamble on me!

Armed with strong determination and endless curiosity I decided to turn my mess into a message. I sought support to alter my victim mindset. I found well-wishers who saw how much I wanted to rise from the ashes and in doing so help others rise too. This was the nudge I needed to set myself new goals!

My journey so far is filled with gratitude to my mentors, teachers, coaches, a few much-evolved friends and to my learnings from the Vipassana meditation technique. The investment in myself, has driven me to discovering the goodness in me and the goodness of life! Several baby steps later, I have now come out on the other side with a victory mindset!

And as my own journey of healing and self-discovery continues I thrive on motivating and empowering people like you to discover yourself and pursue a life that fulfills you.

My mission

My passion and my mission are to share my journey and experiences of evolution for those, seeking the same from a coaching experience with me, especially on the topic of domestic abuse, which could be a challenge for both men and women.

I also invite you to work with me if you simply wish to address your lack of self-belief, fears, anxieties, and confidence in your personal or professional life.

My belief: An empowered life is a gift to yourself! You owe it to your soul to find the ways and means to lift yourself from the routines and rants and experience life afresh with courage, clarity, and confidence!

Communication is Oxygen!

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